How To Decide
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

How To Decide

Decisions shape our lives, but they don’t have to define us. When you let go of the fear of making the “wrong” choice, you open yourself to growth, learning, and possibility. Remember: you don’t need to have it all figured out—just take the next step.

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Embrace your main character life
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

Embrace your main character life

You don’t need permission to be the star of your life. You don’t need the perfect plan, the perfect timing, or the perfect circumstances. All you need is the courage to take the first step. The pen is in your hand. Write a story that’s worth living.

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Crushing self-doubt and unleashing clarity
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

Crushing self-doubt and unleashing clarity

Let’s be real—self-doubt can feel like a constant, nagging voice that keeps us from stepping into our full potential. And if you’ve ever found yourself hesitating, asking “Am I really good enough?” or “What if I fail?”—you’re not alone.

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Breaking the chains
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

Breaking the chains

We’ve all inherited things from our families—traditions, habits, beliefs—but what happens when those things hold us back? What if the patterns we’ve been handed down are more about pain than power?

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It's time to flip the script on mediocrity
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

It's time to flip the script on mediocrity

Today, right here right now, we're throwing out the rulebook on "okay" and diving headfirst into what it truly means to embrace our inner badass and say goodbye to settling for anything less than extraordinary.

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Fluff for favor, vomit later
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

Fluff for favor, vomit later

The cost of sustained people-pleasing can be steep. Each time we muzzle our true thoughts, suppress our feelings, or compromise our values, we chip away at our authenticity. The more we indulge in this behavior, the more detached we become from our genuine selves. It's like wearing a mask or sending in your proxy, where your true identity gets buried under layers of compliance.

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People-pleasing is making you sick
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

People-pleasing is making you sick

In a world where social acceptance often feels paramount, the urge to please others can become a relentless force in your life. You find yourself saying yes when you mean no, agreeing when you don’t, and accommodating others even at your own expense.

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