It's time to flip the script on mediocrity
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

It's time to flip the script on mediocrity

Today, right here right now, we're throwing out the rulebook on "okay" and diving headfirst into what it truly means to embrace our inner badass and say goodbye to settling for anything less than extraordinary.

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Fluff for favor, vomit later
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

Fluff for favor, vomit later

The cost of sustained people-pleasing can be steep. Each time we muzzle our true thoughts, suppress our feelings, or compromise our values, we chip away at our authenticity. The more we indulge in this behavior, the more detached we become from our genuine selves. It's like wearing a mask or sending in your proxy, where your true identity gets buried under layers of compliance.

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People-pleasing is making you sick
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

People-pleasing is making you sick

In a world where social acceptance often feels paramount, the urge to please others can become a relentless force in your life. You find yourself saying yes when you mean no, agreeing when you don’t, and accommodating others even at your own expense.

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Putting the self back in confidence
Shelley Stevens Shelley Stevens

Putting the self back in confidence

When I ask my coaching clients the single biggest thing they are looking for, it's confidence. To do the thing they've always wanted to do, to commit to the relationship even if it isn't perfect, to deal with that difficult family thing, to be a better parent. Why are we all so desperately seeking confidence?

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